Ep 3: Domestic Abuse - Abusers Will Adopt Pets From a Rescue Centre For the Wrong Reason

Because an abuser, a narcissist, is charming, it will probably be easy to adopt a pet from a rescue centre if the centre's guidelines are met. At some point in 2024, my aim is to start podcasting. My domestic abuse articles: https://poppys-pets.com/category/help-and-advice-for-cats-dogs-wildlife/domestic-abuse-and-violence/ Domestic Abuse playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrb7hyb8JPwofteOpPf-B21ksR5pqsXkX&si=iqxCEilvp6SD4JAz The abuser: 1: They use love of animals secretly against the victim - their aim is to control them. Meanwhile, the victim considers themselves lucky to have met someone who loves animals. 2: To control the victim, they threaten to harm the pets. The victim complies with demands to keep their pet safe. 3: They may surprise the victim with a gift - adopting a pet from you, a rescue centre. An abuser's aim is to exploit the victim's real love of animals - and they will harm or kill them The pet: 1: Ladder of Aggression - rescue centres will be aware of this. A dog, for example, displays signs of being unhappy in a situation until it peaks into biting. These animals, may end up in rescue and if not the right rescue, maybe misunderstood, going from phyiscal and verbal abuse to being put to sleep in a rescue centre because unable to rehome. 2: An animal will shut down, facing the wall, unable to cope with the constant abuse. Much like us when we reach the point - we often reach the point of suicide. Rescue centres - please bear that in mind. 3: Abuse and violence does get worse - he / she may kill the pet they adopted from you. They want to break the victim, exploit and manipulate. The victim must listen to the subtle threats about their pet. Yes, the abuser will pretend to care but watch what's happening around you. Rescue centres - you may never know a Domestic Abuser has adopted a pet. 4: Sometimes I read in the pet's adoption profile - .'No men' - perhaps the rescue centre is aware of the background.